-By Bushra Hatahet, UK-Trained Clinical Midwife
One of the biggest questions expectant parents ask is:
“How will I know when it’s time to go to hospital?”
The answer isn’t always straightforward.
Every labour is different, and there isn’t one single rule that applies to everyone.
Some women are advised to stay at home during early labour, while others need to be assessed much sooner because of their pregnancy or medical history.
The aim of this guide is to help you recognise when labour is becoming established, when it’s appropriate to contact your maternity team and when you should seek immediate medical assessment.
Before travelling to hospital, take a few moments to ask yourself:
✔ Are my contractions becoming longer?
✔ Are they becoming stronger?
✔ Are they becoming closer together?
✔ Can I still comfortably talk through them?
✔ Have I felt my baby move today?
✔ Have my waters broken?
✔ Am I bleeding?
✔ Do I feel that something isn’t right?
If you are ever unsure, contact your maternity unit for advice.
Many women have heard the “5-1-1 rule” or similar contraction timings.
Whilst timing contractions is useful, it doesn’t tell the whole story.
Your maternity team also wants to know:
Remember…
Length + Strength + Frequency = Effective Labour
As labour progresses you will usually notice that contractions become:
You may find yourself:
These are often signs that labour is becoming established.
One of the most important things to remember is:
Never ignore reduced fetal movements.
Contact your maternity unit immediately if:
Do not wait until the next day.
A small amount of blood mixed with mucus (a bloody show) is normal.
However…
Seek immediate medical assessment if you experience:
• • Bleeding similar to or heavier than a period.
A simple, easy-to-follow decision guide:
Are your contractions regular, getting longer, stronger and closer together?
⬇️
Yes → Contact your maternity unit.
No → Continue resting, hydrating, eating, and monitoring.
Have your waters broken?
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Yes → Contact your maternity unit.
Is your baby moving normally?
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No → Go to hospital immediately.
Many women feel disappointed if they’re assessed and advised to continue labouring at home.
This does not mean your labour isn’t real.
It simply means your body is still in the latent phase.
For many women, home remains the most comfortable environment for early labour because they are:
Your maternity team wants to admit you when active labour is established or when there is a medical reason for ongoing assessment.
Seek immediate assessment if:
Trust your instincts.
Before leaving home remember:
• • TENS machine (if using one)
“One of the biggest mistakes I see is women trying to be “brave” and staying at home despite feeling something isn’t right.
Equally, don’t feel embarrassed if you come to hospital and are still in the latent phase.
We’d much rather assess you, reassure you and help you make a safe plan than have you worrying at home.
There is never a silly reason to call your maternity team”.
Labour isn’t just about timing contractions.
Look for contractions becoming longer, stronger and closer together.
Always contact your maternity unit if your waters break.
Never ignore reduced fetal movements.
Heavy bleeding is never considered normal.
Trust your instincts—if something doesn’t feel right, seek advice.
If you are looking for calm expertise and genuine continuity of care, let’s talk.
